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What 'SHE' is not when 'WE' define 'HER' !

 







What she is not; when ‘WE’ define ‘HER’!!!

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-The Pakistani woman is not a mystery waiting to be solved.
-She’s not in need of being saved by the clutches of a villain.
-Nor is she a person who would dance before taking a bite from a cookie. (It’s way easier to eat a cookie without having to dance a full song)
-She is not a label which needs to be marketed.
-She does not wear the veil or the hijab to show dependency or fear. Her veil and hijab are a symbol of her relationship with her creator.
-She is not a robot that can be modelled according to people’s whims.
-She is NOT a slave to anyone but Allah subhana wa Tallah.
So quit trying to create moulds for her. Allah created her in the best of moulds and that is the most liberating feeling ever.
Saima Sher Fazal

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